10 Steps To Achieve Whatever You Want

Post marathon (AKA- The Goal I didn’t know I wanted to accomplish)

You know when have a great idea or goal and in the beginning you are so excited about it that it almost feels like true love? This thing you are going to accomplish is so YOU, or maybe it’s going to help someone else, or maybe even change the world? Either way, you know THIS is special and so are you. And then as time goes on, the excitement starts to fade and the reality of what you have to achieve to even remotely accomplish your goal seems insurmountable.


All of this happened to me, but in one split second, the moment I realized I wanted to run a marathon.


I dabble in running. I mean I like to run but I’m as sloooow as they come. My favorite is cheat running, where I hike up a mountain and then run all the way DOWN hill. I do love running 5Ks though. I find the energy level infectious and the themes festive. Plus, they are usually for a good cause so I’m floating on the good karma cloud all along the way. But, I truly believe anyone can run 3.2 miles. (Most of my non-running friends disagree until they run one with me- aka Yurtle the Turtle)


It wasn’t until I volunteered at a Marathon one year, and realized I couldn’t speak for fear of bursting into tears, that I realized I had some emotion behind an inner goal of mine that I didn’t even know existed. I wanted to run a marathon. UGH. (Except in my mind the word started with F and rhymed with duck) Honestly, that was my first thought when my subconscious told my brain “you want to run a marathon and you want to do it right”. Right in that moment, I knew how much work was going to go into training for a marathon and I was afraid of it. BUT once I understood this to be a true inner intention of mine, I knew I had to get in touch with the Nike in me and “just do it”.


As feared, training to run 26.2 miles was a lot to take on. And I’m no different than anyone else; I had a lot of other things going on in my life, to say the least. So, I bought a book to help figure out how to break up my training runs. What I didn’t realize was that I was doing something I normally do in my life and at work. I am a big fan of the “chunk it down” method. Take the massive project (in this case, running from Dodger Stadium to the Santa Monica Pier in “sunny” Los Angeles- fun story, the year I ran my marathon was the day LA saw the worst weather I can remember) The chunking down process can be used with any goal you might have. I take the end result, map out what action steps are needed to get there and how long they will take, and away I go. Sounds simple, because, it is.


Here’s why I was able to run a marathon and how you too can do anything your inner intender is telling you:


  1. I mapped out my schedule aka my plan.
  2. I listened to my body when it told me I needed to adjust.
  3. I rolled with the punches. Sometimes you have to adjust the way things get done… For me, if it was raining and I was supposed to run track sprints, I would go to the gym.
  4. I visualized the end result. I saw that finish line from the minute I signed up to run.
  5. Commitment- I had a responsibility to my mind and body to train properly and I took it seriously.
  6. I got the tools I needed. I don’t mean you need to buy fancy things but for your goal, but do get what you need. I needed decent running shoes and clothing.
  7. Passion. I kept that day that I kept almost bursting into tears while volunteering at a marathon close to my heart and in my mind anytime things got “hard” for me.
  8. I had support. During my training and the run. If you have a goal of any kind, drum up support. My husband was so supportive and would change his schedule if I needed to train when we had made plans. And I will ALWAYS remember and appreciate my friends who came to cheer me on during the torrential downpour that was that years’ marathon.
  9. I found like-minded people. I talked about the marathon with people who were excited about it too. This will raise your frequency and gives more energy to propel you towards the (literal and figurative) finish line.
  10. I believed I could do it. Believing you can do something is THE best way to ensure it will happen. There is no stronger motivator. So, if you’re doubting your ability or the outcome, you need to start changing your thoughts. (But that’s a whole OTHER story)


The day I ran, I had a LOT of people pass me and I passed a lot of people. It wasn’t a race for me. I just wanted to finish (with a slight sub goal of finishing under 6 hours- told you, I’m slow). I finished that marathon (under 6 hours!) and unlike the moment that I realized I wanted to run the marathon, I did not have the same AHA flash at the finish line that I imagine a lot of people have. It wasn’t until much later that I really felt what I accomplished. And I gotta say, it’s fueled me to aim for many other goals.


What’s your inner intention? Is there something you want to accomplish in life but you just haven’t committed to do so?

About Me

I’m a life coach for busy professionals who feel like something is missing from their lives. Together we zero in on the reasons why and make a powerful plan of action so they can finally create and sustain the fulfilling life they want.

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